When you’re in a relationship with someone for awhile, you begin to learn new things about them that you probably wouldn’t have discovered if you only just remained friends. You start spending more and more time together and you’re able to share most, if not all, of the different facets of your lifestyle with each other. Eventually, the opportunity will present itself to introduce your relationship to your family members, and this can be somewhat awkward and confusing at times. Maybe you’re unsure about whether or not your family will like him, and wondering if his family will accept you is even more nerve-racking. Let’s not forget that his parents are going to be very critical of you, especially since girls are held to a much higher standard in society than guys are. However, we should also remember that none of us are perfect, and there are many different ways to present yourself in a way that’s both unique and respectable.
“Mom. Dad. Meet… [insert your name here]“
1. Don’t Panic.
There’s really no reason to be afraid of what might happen next. At this point, all they know about you is your name and your outward appearance. In fact, this is the very first thing that you should think about before you finally meet his parents for the first time. And hopefully you won’t have to think too hard about it, either. The most important part of your appearance is how comfortable it makes you feel. But it’s always a good idea to take into consideration what his parents might think of you based on how you’re dressed and/or how much makeup you’re wearing, etc.
At the end of the day, you don’t want to be in a position where you constantly feel like you have to “pretend” whenever you’re around them. One day, you might become part of the family and it only makes sense for them to accept you for who you really are. Wear whatever makes you feel at home, along with your beautiful smile, and you’re in great shape to embark on a fun, loving new relationship with your potential in-laws.
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